I’ve worked with over 1,000 kids—the ones with the best people skills use these 6 phrases

No one is born with perfect people skills. Kids learn people skills — including communication, emotional intelligence, boundary setting, and empathy — by watching their trusted adults and practicing in real-life scenarios in safe environments. 

As a certified child life specialist and licensed therapist who has supported thousands of kids and families, I've seen these skills help kids build confidence, navigate relationships and handle stress and challenges. Over time, kids who develop strong people skills also tend to become more flexible, adaptable, and self-reflective.

Here are six phrases kids with the best people skills might say, and what you can do to foster them from an early age.